What I’ve learned (or relearned) about myself since my resignation
It’s been five months since I resigned from my full-time job. It was intentional. It was necessary. It was the hardest decision I’ve ever made.
And I don’t regret it one bit. I may not have found another full-time role (yet), but I’ve found myself again. Being on my own has helped me remember who I am and what I love about my work.
It’s kind of like ending a relationship and deciding to be single for a little while … Funny how we think that professionals should always have a new opportunity lined up before leaving a job. But would you ever tell a friend that they have to find a new spouse before getting a divorce?
I know there’s stigma in taking a career break, but there’s also power in taking time for yourself. I’ve been privileged to walk away for a little while and discover my worth outside of a paycheck.
Here are a few things I’ve learned (or relearned) about myself, post-resignation:
I’m a lifelong learner who loves discovering new ideas and trying new things. In the past five months, for example, I started an Etsy shop and built a website, which forced me to learn new skills and sharpen old ones. There’s something thrilling about being a novice and finding ways to grow and improve.
I’m a small-town girl, a farmer’s daughter and a first-generation college student. But my “blue-collar” background doesn’t make me any less capable in the corporate world. My work ethic is helping me stay positive and resilient in my career search.
I will always be an ally and advocate for those who are repressed, underserved or under-represented in some way. As a storyteller, I feel called to elevate those voices and help share their stories, which may otherwise go untold. When I look at my career portfolio, these stories are my favorite.
My most important values are honesty and integrity. Yes, it’s possible to be successful in marketing, communications and public relations without resorting to deceit and manipulation. It’s my mission to prove that our industry can be more than “snake oil” and “spin.” I’m looking for people/organizations who share my belief that the truth is always the right choice.
Not to brag, but I really am one heck of a writer. In the musical “Hamilton,” my favorite line is: “As long as (s)he can hold a pen, (s)he’s a threat.” It reminds me that my words are powerful beyond measure, and I want to wield that power to aid in my journey.
That said, you’ll be seeing more of my writing soon. For years, I’ve helped so many other people tell their stories that I neglected to tell my own. The next five months – and beyond – will be about using my voice and staying true to my authentic self.
I’m not sure what my next career move will be. But I am sure of who I am and what I’ll bring to the table. I can’t wait to share more.
